It's said that communication (common union) means delivering the content to other person. It doesn't mean delivering just by saying or writing but really.. litterally going into other person's world and whispering the contents in other person's language.
When we have a need to communicate with someone, we essentially need to know other person's world, a world of thoughts formed by him. Now each indivudual starts creating his so called world of thoughts from his birth and keeps adding more and more thoughts as he grows up. Out of these thoughts one has different different level of belief for each thought and more a person believes a thought to be true, more he is rigid about it. Most of such rigid thoughts are the one which an induvidual sees from his eyes, then heard, then those which are set by some authority e.g. earth is round etc.. (remember no-one goes to really check if the earth is round or flat.)
The human condition is such that most of the people unconsciously believes that their own world is right. Many people are not aware that their world of thoughs is nothing but an illusion and similarly other people also have thier own such world. Others who know this find it too difficult to access other person's world. Those few who have developed skills of understanding other's world would also readily understand those person's world whose situation either meets their past/present or they have somehow themselves thought by that kind of situation...
Hence there would be very few who can really access anyone's world exactly as it appears to the other person and he would be an ultimate conscious human being (because he who is not in present would either be in his own past or future; how can he then be in present of other person).
Considering all these factors, communication starts appearing real tough, more so for people like me who is continously striving to be more and more aware.
When i talk to other humans, i just can't keep speaking from my own world of thoughts and assume that the other person would be understanding. And when the other person is not understanding, there is no use of talking.
Hence i love blogs where i can write from my own world, without bothering what the other's world is... those who are of same wavelength as me will find it automatically understood. This will help me find some good friends as well.
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